John grew up in Norfolk, Virginia with his three siblings: Gary, Donna and Karen.
He graduated from Norview High School and Old Dominion University. John was an accountant for Camellia Foods for 17 years and then Lombart Instruments for 23 years.
He enjoyed cats, working with his hands, gardening, knives and learning about guns. He was a beloved son, brother, and uncle.
John is survived by siblings Gary Crossman (Judy), and Karen Barnaby (Bruce), both of Virginia Beach, and a host of nieces and nephews (great and great-great).
A gathering for family and friends will be held at Bruce and Karen Barnaby’s, 5761 Lancelot Dr, Virginia Beach, on March 21, 2026 at 3:00.
Memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society at cancer.org/dignitymemorial