
after a brief illness. Fred was preceded in death by his wife Jane (Sistek), son Theodore, brother
Sandy, brother Bert, and his stepfather Willard Hampton. He is survived by his sons, Tim
(Katie) and Tom (Ty); four grandchildren, Ashley Thornton-Ragan, Patricia Lambert, Theodore
Hampton and Victoria Lopez; great grandchildren, James and BellaRose Lambert; siblings
Nancy Knowles and Larry Hampton; and his partner Sue Barnett.
Fred was born on December 17, 1936 in Sayre, PA to the late Renée (Smith) and Sanford Kaye.
He graduated from Culver Military Academy and Cornell University, and subsequently worked
at Bell System/AT&T for the entirety of his 38-year career. Fred and Jane were married from
April 8, 1961 until Jane’s death in 2015. They lived in Upper Saddle River, NJ for nearly 25
years where they were heavily active in the community. Amongst many volunteer organizations,
Fred was a founding member of both the Upper Saddle River Historical Society and the Saddle
River Valley Cultural Center, and started his 46-year service with The Boy Scouts of America. It
was also in NJ that Fred started his lifetime involvement with the Telephone Pioneers of
America, an organization of volunteers from the telecommunications industry who work to
improve their communities. Throughout the 1970s, 80s and 90s, Fred and family traveled
extensively in the United States and Canada, and over the years eventually he visited all 50
states.
Upon Fred’s retirement, he and Jane moved to Albuquerque in 1996 and increased their
community involvement and volunteerism. Some of Fred’s service was with the ABQ Indian
Pueblo Cultural Center, the Boys and Girls Clubs of America, Ronald McDonald House, Habitat
for Humanity, Junior Achievement, ABQ Telephone Pioneer Museum, Buffalo Soldiers Society
and several programs on the Navajo Indian Reservation. In addition, Fred regularly donated
blood for the majority of his life. Upon Jane’s death, he moved to Las Vegas and continued his
service with various veterans groups, continued with the local Buffalo Soldiers chapter, and was
heavily involved with several committees at his final home at Las Ventanas retirement
community. When people say that Fred was trying too hard to make the world a better place,
Fred would reply, “But you have to try.”
There aren't words to express how much he will be missed by his family, friends and the countless
people he interacted within the community. His impact on people's lives cannot be measured. Fred
will be remembered for his love of history, sense of humor, and tireless dedication to improving
the community.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Upper Saddle River Historical Society.
http://usrhistoricalsociety.org Per his wishes, there will be no service.
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